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Posted 9/17/2013 6:03pm by Shiloh Avery.

Jason and Shiloh

When my grandfather passed away many years back, we discovered things that my grandmother was unable to do simply because she hadn’t done them in 50 years.  She didn’t know how to drive or write a check.  Little things we take for granted.  I remember thinking to myself that I was never going to let that happen to me.  I was going to be self sufficient.  There would be nothing that I relied upon a partner to do.  10 years down that road, it seems quite the lofty goal.  The reality is, we have partners for more reasons than love and companionship.  We have partners because there’s really too much work for one person to manage alone.  This is true in running a household and running a business, but it’s especially true for the running of both.  So after Jason’s now infamous burning accident landed him in Winston-Salem luxury accommodations for the weekend, I find myself in a very similar situation (minus a few years) to my grandmother’s all those years ago.  Wait, payroll taxes are due?  How does he do that?  Wait, we have to build another hoop house before the end of the month?  I never touched the very beginning of the process!  Each day of his absence I find myself in awe of all the little things my partner does that I barely even notice.  I find it daunting to tackle the mountain of tasks that the two of us take on every day.  The first to go, for me, is food.  Today, it was high time I ate something nourishing. I’ve been sleeping little and driving lots, eating bits here and there, but hardly anything we grew on the farm.  But I didn’t even have the energy to “make” a salad.  I just shoved a handful of arugula in my mouth and bit into a pepper.  There, check “cooking” off my list.  Boy, do I miss my partner.



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